Turning Grief into Guidance: How to Support a Grieving Parent with Kiki DeVille
For any parent, a child is a cherished treasure—a beacon of love and hope. But how do you endure the unimaginable loss of such a precious gift?
In this deeply moving episode of Sexuality and Identity, host Shireen Ashton sits down with Kiki DeVille, author of What Not to Say: A Practical Guide to Supporting Bereaved Parents. Kiki opens up about a deeply personal journey of loss after the passing of her infant son, Dexter, who succumbed to a rare genetic condition and how she transformed her pain into a book to guide others. She bravely discusses the silence and stigma that often surround child loss, especially in communities of colour, where higher risks of miscarriage and stillbirth persist due to healthcare disparities.
Kiki also brings to light the invaluable role of children’s hospice programs and the urgent need for government support in sustaining these resources. Through her story, she speaks to the profound role that faith can play—not as a cure for grief but as a comforting presence that can coexist with it.
This episode is an essential listen for parents, friends, and supporters of bereaved families, offering a compassionate space to understand and honor the journey of healing. Tune in for a conversation that will resonate with every heart.
Produced by Global Indian Series for the Global Indian Network.
Script by Rajan Nazran
original idea: Rajan Nazran
Podcast Host: Shireen Ashton
Introduction music: (Sound Title) – by Steven F Allen
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About Kiki DeVille
Miss Kiki DeVille, also known as the Grand Duchess of European Cabaret, is one of Europe’s most celebrated Burlesque Chanteuses and Hosts, recognised for her commanding stage presence and unique artistry. Australian-born and internationally acclaimed, Kiki brings over 25 years of professional music industry experience to her captivating performances.
Kiki’s journey began in Australia, where she honed her skills as a Big Band and Session Singer, often performing with prestigious ensembles. She devoted 12 years to the Australian Civilian Army Band, gracing iconic venues such as Melbourne’s Cricket Ground and Concert Hall. Her versatility and dedication to her craft quickly earned her a reputation as an adaptable and refined musician across diverse musical settings.
In 2003, Kiki moved to Los Angeles, where she continued expanding her international career. Later, her path took her to the UK, where she embraced Burlesque, seamlessly blending her vocal prowess, engaging personality, and audience command. She remains dedicated to her blues roots while celebrating her inner showgirl, making her one of the UK’s most in-demand Burlesque Chanteuses and Compères.
Kiki’s talents have also brought her to the small screen; she appeared as a beloved judge on both seasons of the BBC’s All Together Now, alongside Geri Horner and later served as a guest judge on Norway’s version of the show.
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